Anonymous asked:
So I used to like this guy. But he never liked me back, so my friend said I should just be happily single. But I'm not happy. I want a boyfriend. And I do have a little bit of feelings for another guy now. I haven't told anyone about my feelings for this other guy. He used to go to my school, but he switched. And last night we had a deep conversation about my personal issues. And he was there to comfort me. What should I do?! Btw love your account :)
First off, thanks so much babe! It means a lot <3 You’re the best. Second, I wouldn’t jump straight into telling anyone about your feelings for them so soon into this new friendship; you should wait and see how your feelings develop (if they develop at all). Wait a few more weeks and continue talking to this other guy so that you have a clear view on where things are going to go. I understand that you want to have a boyfriend because much like me, you love all the lovey dovey stuff that comes with relationships. However, it’s better to take your time when it comes to these things and never say that you’ll be alone forever. Don’t even think that. You’re young, ya know? You’ve got a full life of boys ahead of you.
Anonymous asked:
One of my really good friends told me that this guy told her brother that this guy like me. So her brother told my friend, and my friend told me. You see, I don't believe my friend, even though she sweared. It's just that this guy and us haven't had a good history, and now when we've meted after such a long time, he starts to like me? Her brother said the guy actually blushed on it. Idk, like what should I do? Believe it or think that this guy is up to something?
I think that you should go directly to the source and ask him yourself or you should definitely try asking your friends brother considering that the guy supposedly told him about liking you. Don’t assume that he doesn’t like you because of your past.
Posted on January 25, 2014
Anonymous asked:
Soo this guy and I broke up like 2 weeks ago and we are still really close friends but he still loves me. (Btw we dated for like a month) He wants me to be happy so he wants to figure out if my crush likes me or not. All of my friends thinks he does but idk! In class the three of us sat together and when ex was a little flirty my crush gave him this look. Does he like me or is he just worried I'll get back together with my ex??
You can’t tell if somebody likes you just because they give a guy who’s flirting with you ‘a look’. I think it really depends on the look he gave your ex too. If it’s a look of annoyance then you should definitely take that as a good sign and keep pursing this guy. You question, “Does he like me or is he just worried I’ll get back together with my ex??” You can’t say “or is he” because, if he likes you then he would be worried about you getting back with your ex. You should confront him about your feelings and see where it goes.
Posted on January 20, 2014
Anonymous asked:
[cont] and sometimes he likes pictures of me and whatnot. we both work stage crew at our own schools, and since he's a drama kid he's planning on going into show business when he's older. i was telling him about my school's upcoming musical and our auditorium to which he replied, "that sounds interesting, i should drive out to see your show since all our other plans to meet keep falling through." so now i'm kinda excited and i'm sort of wondering if he likes me? i need input
He’s hella cute. You’re hella cute. Be hella cute together so it can be like…hella hella cute, ok.
I can actually see how you would be questioning whether or not he likes you because, I’d definitely be wondering the same thing. My opinion would be to say that he does. However, I could be wrong. If you want to know for sure then your best bet would be to confront him about your feelings and ask if he feels the same. You could also play 21 questions just to ask him if he likes anybody.
Posted on January 19, 2014
Anonymous asked:
What do you even get a guy for valentines day if you aren't at a sexual point in your relationship?
I literally have no idea to be honest. I’ve never once in my entire exist been in a relationship on Valentine’s Day. You could always just make him a nice home-cooked meal and watch a movie together. For girls we appreciate the chocolates, the cute little stuffed animals and the flowers. For guys, I feel like it really depends. Dating a guy who works with his hands, you could get him a tool box or something. Dating a guy who’s sweet and simple, he could be just fine knowing how much you love him and appreciate him. Either way, you should definitely show him how much he means to you.
Posted on January 19, 2014
Anonymous asked:
2 years ago my bf's younger brother started to text me (i was 16 and he 14), we talked basically 24/7 til the day he asked me to do handjobs, i was so in love with him so i accepted but now we barely say hi, what should i do? I do still love him:(
I think it’s possible that he just used you for that and now that he got what he wanted, it doesn’t really matter to him much anymore. The best thing to do is move on and to do that, you need to actually cut all contact from him and start talking to other people. It will be insanely hard but it’ll be for the best (trust me).
Posted on January 19, 2014
Anonymous asked:
A guy I was talking to ended things for another girl. We haven't talked since. Now he's telling me he misses me and letting me go was a mistake. I still have feelings for him but he really hurt me. What should I do? I still really, really like him.
You should make him win your trust back; something like that shouldn’t be taken lightly and forgiven easily. Though it may be hard, you need to make him work for you. If he’s still with that girl though, then you need to let him know that if he thinks letting you go was a mistake then he shouldn’t still be with her.
Posted on January 19, 2014
To that anon:
No, it’s not weird at all to say that; it’s just a really friendly thing to say so you shouldn’t be worried about it. You should however stop and wait to see if he will say something to you first. If he really wants to talk to you then he’ll say something within the first day or the first few days. Don’t let him get used to always having you say something first. It’ll become a habit and you won’t be able to fix it.
Posted on January 19, 2014
Anonymous asked:
I've had a crush on my dance teacher for a while now which was no biggie, we're good friends and know each other well. I thought it'd go away but it's starting to upset me when he talks about his girlfriend or when I see him with her. How do I stop fancying him oops
The best way to move on from someone is to stop spending so much time with them and start spending a lot of time with someone else that you are physically attracted to. As you spend more time with this other person, you’ll start thinking less and less of your dance teacher and more of the new person. It may happen so quick that you don’t even realize it.
Posted on January 19, 2014
Anonymous asked:
I've been texting this guy, I'm pretty sure he likes me, but after the conversation gets going, he always responds really late to my messages, like 30min to 2hours! It's usually late at night too, so I am asleep when he messages me back. I'm almost positive he likes me, but idk why he would do this, what do you think it means?
If you’re positive he likes you then don’t read too much into the late replying thing. He could just be really busy and not have time to reply for a while.. My boyfriend replies late too sometimes; he’s not going to just drop everything he’s doing to reply to me and I understand that. Even though he’s replying late, you should take it as a good thing that he’s replying at all.
Posted on January 19, 2014
