Anonymous asked:
Do you think I maybe pushed my luck too far? I guess I just couldn't resist? God I'm a dumbass. What if now I ruined it? What do you think she'll do? Why did she leave in the first place? I hate this.
No. None of that negativity, understand? She likes you enough to go on all those lunch dates with you and enough to not pull away BEFORE you even touched your lips to hers. I don’t think that you pushed your luck too far and you’re not a dumbass. The only thing that makes you a dumbass right now is thinking that your ruined everything. You didn’t. I think she’s probably thinking about what happened at this very moment and analyzing it all. I’m not sure why she left int he first place but, she could possibly be scared. For all we know, the reason she moved there in the first place is because she was getting away from a guy.
Posted on January 19, 2014
Anonymous asked:
My brother invited my coworker and I for lunch. It was fun but I wish I had been the one to invite her. In the end I dropped her off. We stood on her porch for a while talking and we almost kissed - she left as soon as our lips touched though...
Even though she left as soon as your lips touched, I’d take it as a good sign because, she didn’t turn away and leave before your lips touched. You’re making a lot of progress with this girl; just be patient and everything will work out. I truly believe that. Good luck!
Posted on January 19, 2014
Anonymous asked:
What if she ends up not liking me back? Sometimes I feel she's in to me, makes it kinda obvious, but suddenly it seems like she isn't, and I get confused... I'd definetely go for her, no regrets at all, but I'll be devastated because she's so perfect; so I just don't try anything to at least maintain friendship. It's not a huge distance (PR, pretty small island :) but she'll be meeting new guys, diferent people... I should go for it anyways, right?
If you believe that the risk will be worth it even if you get hurt in the end, then yes; I do think that you should go for it.
Posted on January 14, 2014
Anonymous asked:
I've known this girl since 7th grade. She is one of the best people I've ever met. She is perfect. I know her very well since I had a crush on her then, and we got to know eachother; though, I never read relationship signals from her so I decided to back off, maybe she deserved better since she's perfect. Silly thoughts of mine. Now, in 10th grade, I'm getting deep feelings, but she's leaving to another school and things will be harder then. What do I do?
You go for it anyways. Your head may be telling you not to because it’ll be really hard but you should follow your heart. Things may be hard if you have to do the long distance thing but if you love her, then isn’t all of it worth it? If she doesn’t know already then you should tell her how you feel and that you want to be with her before it’s too late.
Posted on January 14, 2014
Anonymous asked:
How do most girls react when a sensitive subject comes up? I asked my coworker why she moved here in the first place and she bit her lip (a habit), looked up, laughed a bit and changed subjects. Should I not ask that anymore? (glad you're better btw)
No, I don’t think that you should ask her that for a while. If you guys keep going like you’re going then she should eventually warm up to you and trust you enough to tell you herself. Until then, I wouldn’t ask her about it because it’s obviously a sensitive subject that she doesn’t feel comfortable talking about yet. If you continue to ask her, you might end up pushing her away and we don’t want that. I think she’s reacting how a lot of girls actually react. I’ll avoid the subject at all costs, that’s for sure.
Posted on January 14, 2014
Anonymous asked:
Hey not sure if you remember but I'm the guy crushing on his coworker. Today she brought gifts for everyone since she just came back from a trip... Even me! She wrote everyone a note wishing them all the best... I want to ask her for lunch again.
IJEHFOEJFEFYOU’RE BACK AND I’M GONNA CRY BECAUSE YOU’RE JUST TOO CUTE.
You should definitely ask her out for lunch again! This girl sounds like she’s the girl of your dreams and you really shouldn’t let that go ever; even if you have to chase her forever. Just keep it casual and ask her when she’s free next time so that you guys can go out for lunch together, even if it’s not on a work day.
Posted on January 11, 2014
Anonymous asked:
Going to a house party this weekend and I wanna pull this girl I like but idk how to do it
Be confident! Confidence is the key to it all! If she’s talking to her friends, just walk up and ask her to dance or if you could get her a drink. Hopefully, she’ll say yes and if she does then take her hand and pull her over to the drinks. The best thing you can do is strike up a conversation with her. Be yourself too! Don’t come off an a cocky, arrogant fuckass though.
Posted on January 2, 2014
Anonymous asked:
Hey I'm not sure if you remember me but I was the guy with a crush on his coworker... Turns out her and my older brother were childhood best friends and even though my brother doesn't have feelings for her, it stresses me out a bit.
Of course I remember you! You should tell your brother how you feel about this girl so that he knows she’s off limits. I doubt your brother would go for her if he knows that you want to be with her. As for her, just keep hanging out with each other and talking to her every day or at least almost every day.
Posted on January 2, 2014
Anonymous asked:
I said something to offend this girl I like and I feel really bad vid I didn't mean it in that way, she's been ignoring my calls until today when I asked if I could come over to her house to talk, she said ok but what do I say and do I bring her anything? Help I feel bad
Well if she likes chocolates, then bring her a box of chocolates but if she doesn’t like them then bring her some roses. Or bring both together. I think that’ll show that you really are sorry and that you care enough to try so hard and fix everything. At her house, just sit down and start apologizing but don’t make any excuses because that’s just annoying.
Posted on December 31, 2013
Anonymous asked:
How to make a girl happy
It depends on the girl.
Being a gentlemen. Being caring. Being respectful. Don’t be super clingy because it’s annoying. There are a lot of things that should just apply to all guys because almost every single girl loves those things. Depending on the girl, you just have to know what she loves and hates so that you know how to make her happy.
Posted on December 30, 2013