You don’t actually have to start the first conversation if you show him psychically by smiling or waving to him that you have no hard feelings about anything that happened between the two of you. 2 years is actually a really long time if you think about it. 730 days actually. Though, if he doesn’t catch onto that fact then you have to start talking to him first if you want to be friends with him. If you broke up with him however, he could possibly be holding onto that. If he doesn’t catch on that you want to be friends then send him a quick text asking him what’s up. Get his number from someone if you have to or better yet, walk up to him and start talking. It’s only awkward if you make it that way.

Here you go, love

That’s alright. A lot of people do; don’t feel ashamed about it.

Its a party. Probably gonna be drinking, grinding and all kinds of things. People making out in the middle of…..everywhere. If it’s a party, wear a mini skirt with some killer high heels. Leave your hair down and don’t glob on so much make up that your face looks like its an easel. If you’re wearing a mini dress, make sure it stands out or you at least look fantastic in it. Both should grab his attention. However, your clothes shouldn’t make your ex jealous. During the party, just start dancing with some guy. Make sure your ex is near and seeing everything that’s happening but don’t constantly look at him so he knows exactly what you’re doing.

Oh awkward. I hope you’re not there yet. Well, it’s been 3 years, not 3 days! Just act normally and try to get along with each other. You don’t even have to go near him if you don’t want to but if it’s been 3 years since you’ve spoken then how are you sure that there’s awkwardness and tension? For all you know, he’s actually over everything. Just go to the party and have a good time! If your ex tries talking then just be civil. The past is in the past.

Well, I personally think long distance relationships are so much better. You have to trust the person more, you have to be really really patient and you’ll go through more hard times than a normal couple would but in the end, I think it’s worth it. LDR’s have the one of the purest loves that there is to have. Who wouldn’t want that even with all the hardships? I think you should go for it; don’t let the distance stop you from taking what you want.

No, don’t talk to him at all. Constantly trying to contact him makes you looks desperate especially when he’s dating somebody else. He’s moving on with his life and so should you. To do that, you have to cut contact with him fully.

I personally don’t think you should get back together with him right now. I do however believe in second chances and if you truly believe that you still love this guy then take things really really slow. Like, snail slow. Not even turtle slow. Make him work hard to earn your trust back because what he did is not okay at all and after a while (however long you feel necessary), if he’s still trying and working at it then I do think that you should give him another go. Be really careful though, hun.