I think holding hands is an intimate act; it’s like a way to be close without being too touchy and intimate in public. In my professional opinion, it does show some feelings!

Oh my lord, thank you so much for coming to me about this 😍 nobody has asked me for advice in so long.

So, anyways! In Grey’s Anatomy, Meredith once said “I think it’s important to take the time to tell the people you love how much you love them while they can still hear you.”

Honestly, anybody could die at any given moment; whether they have continuous operations or not. Maybe it seems like a reason not to tell him but, I truly think it’s exactly why you should. There’s no easy why to tell someone you love them or that you’re falling for them. Have you ever read The Fault in Our Stars? When I read it, I came away sobbing hysterically but, I learned that even within a limited amount of days with someone, it can be forever with them. Maybe they won’t always be by your side and maybe you won’t always get to hold their hand but it’s the memories. Memories, pictures, letters, art. Those are the things that give you your forever when your limited amount of days have run out. Death is inevitable for everyone; but Meredith was right. It’s important to tell someone how much they mean to you while they’re still around to hear it; even if they say they don’t want to. The best thing you could honestly do is just be really straight and out front with him about it. Ask him to come over sometime because you have something really important to talk to him about. Once you get over the nauseating nervous feeling and start off, everything else will honestly just come. Remember to take deep breaths. If you have to, maybe even cover your eyes so that you don’t actually see him when you’re saying it; sometimes it helps when you trick yourself into believing nobody is actually there.

TELL ME HOW EVERYTHING GOES. I LOVE YOU GORGEOUS & I HOPE YOU’RE HAVING AN AMAZING KICK OFF TO 2015

Omfg I’m just now seeing these babe; I’m so sorry. I didn’t get the notification.

Because you’ve only done a couple things together and your texting isn’t very constant, I think you should definitely give it a week or so and see what happens! Just because you’re waiting to see what happens doesn’t mean you can’t crank up your girl power and flirt up a tsunami with him. Don’t let it stop you from getting your flirt on!

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First off, thanks so much babe! It means a lot <3 You’re the best. Second, I wouldn’t jump straight into telling anyone about your feelings for them so soon into this new friendship; you should wait and see how your feelings develop (if they develop at all). Wait a few more weeks and continue talking to this other guy so that you have a clear view on where things are going to go. I understand that you want to have a boyfriend because much like me, you love all the lovey dovey stuff that comes with relationships. However, it’s better to take your time when it comes to these things and never say that you’ll be alone forever. Don’t even think that. You’re young, ya know? You’ve got a full life of boys ahead of you.

Be straight up with them! I don’t condemn lying to parents but if it’s gotta be done then do it. I think that you should definitely sit down and talk to them about all of your feelings first

I think that you should face your feelings and tell him; it never works out for anyone when they hold in their feelings. I think it’s possible to like 2 people at once and for all you know, that’s how it is for him; with you being one of those people. You always risk things by telling people your feelings but sometimes it’s worth it in the end.

You can’t talk a person out of being suicidal. You can talk someone out of suicide but you’ll never be able to stop the thoughts that run through their mind every day. The only thing you can do is be there for her; no matter what. You have two options. (1). Confront her about the poem that you found but you’ll have to tell her that you were going through her tablet. (2). You can wait for her to tell you about it herself but, there’s a possibility that it won’t ever happen. If I were in your situation, I’d confront her about it and reassure her that you’re there for her.

i think you should go for it. In any relationship, there will be people who don’t approve of it but you should definitely go for whatever make you happy no matter what anybody else says about it.